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Breasts+tits 01: The development from girl to woman

Tits, titties, boobs, boobies, bosom, bust, etc. during puberty

Joy or discrimination - identity problems - staring men and female power maneuvers - men setting boob standards in movies - be topless

Girl about 6 years old in Amazon jungle, Yanomami natives [1] - Girl about 11 years [2] - Youth girls about 16 years old [3]
Women topless in Africa [6]	Woman topless in Amazon jungle, Kayapo natives [5]	Woman topless in Amazon jungle, Desana natives, painted breasts [6]	Women topless, Xingu native women in the Amazon wild forest wrestling [11]

 
by Michael Palomino (2006 - translation 2018)

  from: Ingrid Olbricht: The breast. Organ and symbol of feminine identity (original German: Die Brust. Organ und Symbol weiblicher Identität); Edition Kreuz 1985, Edition Rohwolt (rororo) 1989 [a1,a2]

Content of breasts+tits 01 1. The basics of becoming a woman 2. The girl's life: girls 3-7 years 3. Girls 8-11 years 4. Adolescent youth girls 12-17 years 5. Sex life of adolescent girls and women with developed breasts 6. Breast Power Games 7. The adult woman 8. The older woman and her breasts

Comment

Ingrid Olbricht (1935-2005) worked from 1979 to 2000 in a rehabilitation clinic, this was a Wicker Clinic in Bad Wildungen in North Hesse (Germany) with her special topic of trauma therapy and psychosomatics [web01]. She set out to find the cause of female identity crises related to the breast. The importance of the breast for women has hardly been researched, and psychotherapy which is made by men lets women completely in the lurch with regard to the importance of the breast (p.9). The connections of the book "The Breast" (original German: "Die Brust")are systematically presented here. Every woman and every man has to know about this, above all teachers.

Mother Earth for breasts: anise seeds+green parts of fennel+beer massage+stinging nettle - or aguaje juice
There are two recipes from Mother Earth for getting bigger breasts or reinstalling sagging breasts: with anise seeds, green parts of fennel, beer massage and stinging nettle - or, when the woman is living in a country with tropical fruits, drinking a glass of hormone juice of aguaje 1 time per day - or BOTH together.

Michael Palomino 2006 / 2018 (translation 2018)


1. The basics of becoming a woman

 
Woman topless in Amazon jungle, Desana natives, painted breasts [8] - Woman topless in Amazon jungle with necklaces [9] - be natural - be happy

Basis of life between soul and hormones

Psychological conditions have an effect on hormonal conditions - tests prove:

"Psychological factors can certainly influence the levels and proportions of the various hormones." (p.78)

All hormonal developments are thus dependent on the mental state of a person and can be influenced by the mental state (p.78). Thus there is also a mental effect on

[-- the breast growth
-- the general development of the body]

-- PMS
-- period pains (p.78).

Healings PMS and menstrual pain with Mother Earth: anise seeds and fennel heal PMS and period pains
Period pains and PMS heal chewing anise seeds or eating green parts of fennel 3x per day within 1 month and don't come back. The same is working with anise or fennel tea 3x per day - or one can also make a mixture of both, as woman likes.

The basis for the woman is to have a breast
Breasts have a soothing effect (p.7-8). The breast and the woman giving birth were originally the rulers of life, in matriarchy. The mother line reigned, which is undisputed, whereas men cannot bear children (p.183).

Having breasts (bosom, tits) means being a woman. It is a collective experience of all women (p.85).

With slender women, the breast is one of the first organs for closer relationships (p.87) [after shaking hands and after kissing. With thicker women, the relationship organ is the thick belly after shaking hands and kissing]. The larger the breasts are, the sooner body contact is possible in closer relationships (p.87).

In relationships, the breasts are one of the most important physical connecting organs, up to the feeling of fusion. The breasts are thus a means of bridging loneliness and temporarily creating a paradisiacal state of union (p.128).

Instinct logic

A woman with children shows that a man is behind the woman [and that the woman takes care of the offspring in society]. Thus counting persons the woman with children is more valuable than a woman who appears without children (p.8)

2. The girl's life: girls 3-7 years


Girl about 6 years old in Amazon jungle, Yanomami natives [1]

The girls compare themselves with the boys and experience how the boys "pee" who can pee farther - what the girls cannot. And in all cases boys can "pee" outdoors, while girls can't do it or can only do it in hiding, because they have to expose their whole backside for this. These two fundamental freedoms are very envied. The girls react with mockery and mobbing against the boys (p.17).

The little daughter develops a jealousy of her mother

According to the Freud student Mrs. Melanie Klein, it is possible that little girls develop envy for their mother, who has everything: She has the father, she has big breasts, and she has the power over the children (p.53). According to Freud student Mrs. Karen Horney, the little daughter generally envies her mother's developmental lead (pp. 54-55).

Patriarchal logic: imposing values and fashion - father dominated girls with penis envy

When fathers are authoritarian towards their daughters, they make the girls internalize men's criteria and not develop their own points of view. Then a psycho-woman grows up, who makes all stylistic questions dependent on the man and who can hardly act herself (p.29).

The girl terrorized by her father develops a penis greed as a substitute for power. Olbricht:

"The partial object 'penis' must be desired because it embodies everything a woman is not allowed in our culture." (S.47)

(original German: "Das Partialobjekt 'Penis' muss deshalb begehrt werden, weil es alles verkörpert, was einer Frau in unserer Kultur nicht zugestanden wird." (S.47)

The penis then stands for strength, courage, development opportunities, development, strength and power. This is the cause of a "penis envy" as described by Freud (p.48).

Fashion world is an authoritarian man's world and is made neither by women nor for women. Fashion thus prescribes women's "figures" and men's fashions and degrades women to objects [sometimes also men]. (S.33).

The male media play ideal concepts for women, which corresponds to a stylistic dictatorship. By this men's terrorism, women can never develop a secure body feeling (p.36).

Freud student Mrs. Karen Horney says the girls would envy the [impulsive] urination shows of the boys. The décolleté, which is later envied by the men, is later the [impulsive] zone corresponding to it equivalent to the male urination show of boyhood (p.53).

Boys with jealousy of feeding towards the girls

Boys develop a breast envy or a nutrient envy because they also want to take over the nutrient functions like a woman (p.48).

3. Girls 8-11 years


Girl about 11 years [2]

First "breast buds" - the girls become curious and anxious

From the age of 8, curiosity is directed towards one's own female body as soon as one's first own breast augmentation occurs, the "bud breast". But only 1/4 of the girls actively follow the development (p.17). The breasts may also grow at different speeds (p.27). In this case, attention is immediately drawn to breast growth (p.28).

[The other 3/4 of the girls don't want to be even more separated from the boys and don't want to be "special" because a breast is growing].

On the young female body which is boyish yet some "pink buttons" are growing (p.112). In any case, from the first "bud growth" on, the girl is involved in the confrontation with becoming a woman, whereby the thoughts about it come from the girl herself [or are brought to the girl]. (S.32-33).

From breast growth on, the girls have hardly any opportunity to develop a secure body feeling and self-image. The boys have no breast problems and therefore develop a much safer body feeling and self-image (p.36).

The fear of large breasts

Getting the first breast buds, the girls can develop a fear that they will later have "huge, flowing lumps of meat" there, such as the aunt, who has breasts that are far too big and only gets them into the corset with the help of others (p.112).

At the same time, the girls can develop a pride in still being addressed as a boy (p.112).

The limitations by the first breast growth

With the first breast growth, the freedom to walk around topless is over. The mother orders the absolute compulsion to put on top clothes:

-- small tops
-- blouses
-- shirts (p.20).

"Topless gymnastics" is forbidden by the mother (p.23).

Perhaps the frigid and puritan mothers also go so far as to forbid the girls to wear open, long hair: They oblige the daughters to do hairstyles with braids (p.72).

The boys, on the other hand, can always walk around topless. The mother may even prescribe wide blouses so that the breast tips do not show on the upper part (p.20).


Bust games in front of the mirror
During this age, girls are playing games in front of a mirror. Tennis balls are pushed under the sweater to see what the figure looks like with breasts. If parents reject such games as "spoiled" or even distribute blows for them, this is exactly the wrong signal (p.20).


The girl doesn't want to have breasts - her mother forbids playing with boys

See this case:

A girl who plays regularly with 2 years younger boys and at the same time has a certain position of power does not want to have her breast buds, thinks at first that she is ill with a proliferation. The mother enlightens the girl that she will later have breasts like her, but the girl does not want to admit that she will later also have breasts like her mother (p.89).

The girl thinks you can "push the buds in the right direction" like the tooth with her braces. She always unsuccessfully presses against the breast buds, sleeps on her stomach with her thumbs against the breast buds, but the breasts continue to grow. The daughter never wants to look as fat as the mother, does not want "huge balls" between her arms. In a conversation with the boys in a summer tent, the girl and the boys show their "differences" and the girl begins to feel comfortable because she now knows what it's all about. However, the scene is secretly followed by the mother and from now on the daughter is sent into organized leisure activities and the play with the boys is forbidden (p.90).

By distraction, adolescent girls forget their breasts until the subject of breasts becomes normal at school, in boys as in girls (p.90). But the prohibitions lead to curiosity (p.93), finally to eternal search and to eternal dissatisfaction even in adult life (p.94) [up to sex addiction when sex activities destroy professional activities].

4. Adolescent youth girls 12-17 years

 
Youth girls about 16 years old [3] - Youth women about 14 years old, Xingu natives in the Amazon [4]

The boyish figure is lost - the new role

The boyish figure now comes to an end with the girls. When the girl was boyish before the bust development, now comes a new role distribution in the family. The environment begins to tease the boyishly adolescent girl because of the growing breasts and bra perspectives, e.g. sisters or brothers (p.112).

In general, adolescent girls have to realize that they are getting closer to the body shape of their mother or older sister. The psychological situation becomes totally unstable and ranges between embarrassment and pride (p.112). The growing breasts are signs of becoming a woman and must be mentally integrated by the pubescent girl (p.128).

In general: The catastrophe when parents repress sexuality

When parents repress sexuality, children come into conflict between parents who reject sexuality and comrades who make sexuality to a topic (p.19). In this case, the adolescent girls suspect great secrets [and the urge to discover all of this becomes entrenched in the subconscious]. (S.112).

Parents' judgement about the growing breast is memorized for life

The relationship with the parents is now decisive for the daughter's attitude towards her breast. The daughters adopt the judgment that the parents speak about the growing bosom. The attitude towards the breast is thus decisively shaped for the whole life of the daughter (p.17).

The model of how the mother treats the breast shapes her life

When a mother puts her breasts in a corset and hides them, the daughter is afraid that she will have to do the same later. So in such a case the daughter does not want to have large breasts (p.18).

The swinging breast is limited now

The mother doesn't want to see a swinging breast with the daughter

The breast now becomes so large that it is "swinging" during walking. The mothers now often forbid the daughters to have their breasts swinging:

-- the mothers forbid the girls to move freely as before
-- the girls often only now realize through the restrictive orders of their mother that they have a breast
-- the breast thus becomes a drastic loss of freedom (p.17).

Olbricht:
"They [the girls] often only notice them [the breast] when their mother forbids them to move with their bodies bare, and then mostly as restrictive, as a loss of freedom." (S.17)

The breast now leads to massive life restrictions, and many girls know little about it [and the girls say nothing]. The growth of the breast is observed with discomfort or is suppressed (p.17).

Squeezing the breast into a bra

Bras give a tight feeling (p.18). The bra makes the girl feel her breasts less (p.91). In many cases, the mother orders the daughter to put on a bra without any preparatory discussion. Even after that there is no conversation (p.25). In many cases, the mothers also have no bra taste and want to put on the ugliest bras for their daughters (p.91).

The adolescent girl is now going through various "bra phases":

-- bras produce a phase of thought in the adolescent girl that the breast could become even larger (p.18)

-- every move of the bra is unpleasant (p.18) and produces a mental phase in the pubertal girl with the thought that the bra is not fully filled (p.19)

-- only when the breasts do not grow any larger, the misconception stops how big the breasts could still become (p.19)

-- the pubescent girls think bras should prevent the breasts from sagging (p.32)

-- the adolescent girls think in a mental phase that bras promote breast growth by "luring out" the breasts (p.32)

-- other adolescent girls feel in a mental phase to become a woman by putting a bra (p.32).

With all this, men are inventing all possible kinds of manipulative bras for the simulation of big breasts and big tits with foam rubber in the bras, etc. (p.38).

Mother Earth for breasts: anise seeds+green parts of fennel+beer massage+stinging nettle - or aguaje juice
There are two recipes from Mother Earth for getting bigger breasts: with anise seeds, green parts of fennel, beer massage and stinging nettle - or, when the woman is living in a country with tropical fruits, drinking a glass of hormone juice of aguaje 1 glass per day - or BOTH together.

Mostly the mothers use confirmation to force a bra on the girls (p.20). Perhaps the mother even grins with the feeling that the daughter certainly must not have the freedoms that the mother was forbidden by her grandmother (p.23). Often the mothers with big bras compete also against the daughter, who still has a small bra (p.32).

Frigid and puritan mothers reject lace bras for the daughter because they cannot be washed well with 90ºC and this would be "unhygienic" (p.20).

[Thus the bra is also forbidden as a "piece of jewellery"].

The prohibitions, so that the breast does not "bounce"

Prohibition of running: Frigid and Puritan mothers impose prohibitions of running (p.20).

Compulsion for wearing clothes that are too big: Frigid and puritan mothers now buy the daughters extra large dresses, so that the daughter's breast is not clearly visible under the dresses. So she the daughter then looks like a scarecrow, but the will of the stupid mother is satisfied. Girls who now have to walk around as scarecrows are teased and rejected in class, become outsiders and are isolated and become shy. They may even develop a hump to hide their breasts, etc. (S.20).

The girls, who are banned because of their breasts, only see their breasts with their mother's eyes. The girls develop fear of their breasts and even find them ugly. Some of the girls then stop mentally in their childhood because they think the mother wants them to be so (p.21).

In this way the joy of life of youth girls will be lost (p.24).

[The child loves the parents no matter what they do, and this is shamelessly exploited and abused by the parents for strategies: Parents' fears are projected into the child].

Eventually, the girl may develop a shyness towards the brutal mother due to the many prohibitions. And for the rest of life, attention is entirely focused on the breasts (p.24).

The fear of a "sagging bosom" - the dangerous dependence on male judgement

According to Olbricht, bras are no good for sagging breasts:

"Unfortunately, the expectations placed in this garment are too high. No type of breastplate is capable of performing other tasks other than the instantaneous effect of holding, which are nevertheless attributed to the bra." (S.32)

The fear of getting sagging breasts (dysmorphophobia) can make women so breastfixed that they think they are accepted by men only because of their large breasts (p.28). Such women have no self-esteem, but they define themselves by their effect on men. Thus they become absolutely dependent on men (p.29).

Mother Earth for breasts: anise seeds+green parts of fennel+beer massage+stinging nettle - or aguaje juice
There are two recipes from Mother Earth for getting bigger breasts or reinstalling sagging breasts: with anise seeds, green parts of fennel, beer massage and stinging nettle - or, when the woman is living in a country with tropical fruits, drinking a glass of hormone juice of aguaje 1 glass per day - or BOTH together.

The competition with other adolescent girls

-- the topic of breasts in school becomes normal at a certain stage of development, with boys as with girls (p.90)

-- the girls develop pride in their breasts and a breast competition. Additionally, girls having had sex already, is rated one level higher (p.91)

-- to impress other teenagers, adolescent girls may wear padded bras, and this habit can develop into a compulsion that only stops when a time comes when they are no longer allowed to wear a bra, after an operation, etc... (S.18)

-- girls with fully developed breasts and big bras are admired by other girls who do not yet have a bra, because a beautiful bra with lace and bow is like a piece of jewelry for the girls (p.20)

-- pubescent girls who change their clothes without being shy embarrass other girls because the prohibitions of frigid and puritan mothers are questioned (p.27)

-- Freud student Mrs. Karen Horney says that girls who used to envy the [impulsive] urinating shows of boys would now like to show off their neckline to show strength to men (p.53).

-- adolescent girls are proud of breasts, of infatuations, and they make their first experience with feelings of envy (p.29)

-- all girls notice that tight t-shirts and walking around without a bra attracts boy's eyes and men's looks (p.30)

[-- girls not developing any breast are unhappy, but the recipes above can help them really: chew anise seeds 3x per day, eat fennel green parts 3x per day, make beer massage with the breasts 3x per day, and sting the breasts with stinging nettles all two days stimulating the tissue - 1cm in 1 week comes out - do it best in holiday times - or in countries with tropical fruits take 1 glass of hormonal aguaje juice per day - or in a climate mixed country do BOTH. This breast will stay also when weight is falling].

Identity development through the shape of the breast

During puberty, the shape of the breasts completely determines the girls' self-confidence. Too small breasts are considered pathological, too large breasts too. Friends support each other in such situations (p.94).

Girls developing late in class

-- late developed girls are considered by other comrades as "ugly ducklings", as "board with peas" etc. (S.30)

-- but small breasts can also be pleasant, then men do not stare so (p.30), and some men find small breasts "sweet" (p.31)

-- some breasts are only fully grown at 25 (p.112).

[In part, the sexual development of girls can be controlled with different diets. A certain body weight is essential for sexual development. Meager girls have less or even no breast development at all].

Inhibited girls in class who have to hide their breasts on mother's orders

-- girls with frigid and puritan mothers are torn between negative mother and positive, life-affirming school class (p.21)

-- too big clothes and isolation prevent first relationships (p.22)

-- the girl restricted by the frigid and puritan mother experiences that becoming a woman leads to isolation (p.22).

Mentally ill girls and women because of breast terror of mother and fashion

The negative messages of parents about the growing bosom and the male dictates of fashion create fears to severe neuroses in adolescent girls (p.33),

e.g. anorexia: The girls have been so terrorized because of their breasts that they develop anorexia. The anorexic girls want to stop any body development, they no longer want to have breasts, thus they want to avoid any development to femininity (p.38).

Breasts that are too large are perceived as ugly

Too big breasts are seen as ugly by adolescent girls, to the point of shame in gym class and the idea that no one would fall in love with the girl concerned. Jokes are made about how the breasts are "wobbling", and friends then advise the girl concerned to wear a bra (p.91).

Shame about oversized breasts can have the pubescent girl reject all sexuality (p.94).

But some men love big breasts, and when the man doesn't say that, the girl doesn't know how to interpret the staring looks of men (p.92).

Girls with a positive attitude towards breast: personality development

Girls who are allowed to grow up with a positive attitude towards the breast identify the growth of the breasts with the growth of personality (p.25). The breasts become the source of self-esteem (p.25).

Perhaps the adolescent girl herself decides that the breasts should not swing so much and buys a bra of her own accord to soften men's looks (p.27).

Men stare at breasts - it scares women when they don't know to handle this

When a man looks at a woman, the first glance often goes to her busom and titties. Men often classify women according to their breast and tits (p.97).

[This evaluation of female breasts is a natural primal instinct: breasts symbolize fertility, and a man wants to start a family and have a woman with large breasts to ensure the offspring].

Men also feel very safe with large breasts. [Studies say that looking female breasts 10 minutes per day makes men happy for the day than men who do resign to do this]. Vivid, large breasts are the most attractive (p.99). Women also want to feel safe with breasts and sometimes regret very much that men do not have breasts. The women nevertheless like to lean against the man's chest (p.98).

[This only happens with the "elected man". This, too, is a primal instinct of women: There where the heart of the partner is, at the chest, there is the greatest security].

But when men stare at breasts, this frightens women (p.31). The [not knowing] girls associate staring with a men's claim to possession (p.100-101). Often the men in a relationship actually feel that the breasts of their girlfriend belong to them (p.100).

The staring is therefore not a confirmation for the woman. Confirmation for a woman comes only seing also other values and qualities other than the breast (p.31).

If men stare too hard at large breasts and the girl being stared is already feeling her breasts as a negative part of life, staring at the breasts can cause the [ignorant] girl may feel that her large breasts would be an illness (p.92).

Painful touching the bosom and tits is a shock to the woman

Men with an unlimited drive for love [as compensation for a rigid, puritanical, asexual education] always touch big breasts and get into embarrassing situations again and again. The man is the victim of woman's power (p.102) [and the man has not yet realized the tragedy of his own education. Self-analysis against his rigid, puritan, asexual parents is still to come].

When men painfully touch women's breasts, this is a shock for the woman, who then develops great fears (p.36).

[Women always await tenderness WITH compliments and sense of tact, WITHOUT any pain, and women expect that men DON'T PLAY WITH MONEY - nothing else women expect].


5. Sex life of adolescent girls and women with developed breasts

 
Woman topless, Wauri native in the Amazon wild forest [5] - live free - live happy

Tenderness with breasts

Caressing breasts tenderly triggers hormone boosts and deep sexual feelings

Tenderness with nipples considerably enhances the woman's desire sensation, because it produces a hormone boost with oxytocin from the pituitary gland, with effect on the smooth muscle fibers in the chest as well as with effect on the muscle fibers of the vagina and uterus (p.96).

Caring nipples triggers pulling and tingling throughout the complete female body (p.95), with direct influence on the female sexual organs in the abdomen (p.96), possibly even with contractions of the uterus (p.103).

The breast is therefore an effective sexual organ, depending on the excitability of the woman. Tender touching causes an erection of the nipples (p.96). The woman demands a tender treatment of the breasts (p.97). Breasts have to be stroked, not just greedily kneaded, as many men do (p.92). Kissing, stroking, kneading and sucking breasts brings many women to orgasms (p.96).

The pubescent girls and women therefore love it when someone is softly caring their breasts. During school hours the pubescent girls play nipple games with a pencil under their blouse etc. (S.91). Touching breasts tenderly is a confirmation of being a woman and is developing the possibilities of feelings towards men (p.95).

When a partner is caring her breasts tenderly, the woman wants to care tenderly the other person's face and hands. This means: touching breasts tenderly is activating mother feelings (p.97).

During foreplay, the breasts can increase by up to 1/4 of it's size, veins can become clearly visible under the breast skin, with an enlarged areola, with involvement of the areola in the mammillary erection (p.96).

Breast sucking is a kind of inverse sexual intercourse in which the breast fills the oral cavity of the sexual partner [man or lesbian woman]. It remains a female action, because the breast always remains gentle without any aggression and has nothing to do with penetration (p.96).

Big breasts need special instructions: kneading AND caressing

Large breasts are rather kneaded, small ones rather caressed. Girls with large breasts, where men usually only knead and hardly touch the breasts tenderly, can develop the belief that large breasts cannot be caressed at all. Thus, girls with large breasts develop a great need for tenderness, which they see fulfilled and envy with girls with smaller breasts. A girlfriend can help when girls are caressing each other their breasts trying out how it works (p.92).

Large breasts sometimes cause men to fall asleep (p.93). [The large breasts give men a great feeling of security].

Women caressing each other's breasts

Some women love other women's breasts and would like even men to have breasts (p.93).

The effect of breasts on men during sex play

The effect of the breasts is different:

-- sexual acts with the penis between the breasts convert the man into a stallion, which "turns him on".

-- but when the man sucks on her tits, he also becomes a baby (p.100).


6. Breast Power Games

 
Women topless in Africa [6] - Woman topless in Amazon jungle, Kayapo natives [7] - be natural - be happy

The effect of breasts on Men: women's breast power games and retreat

Women can actively influence the environment by presenting their breasts (p.104). Women can play just games of power with their breasts: breasts are presented provocatively and men are irritated, but then they retreat (p.103).

[Breast power games with defamations against innocent men - unprocessed sexual abuse traumas with girls

Adolescent girls and women being blocked and stuck mentally in puberty prefer power games against men by spreading difamations that men would have "grabbed" them at their bosom. Such breast defamations are usually a cry for help from the woman herself that traumatic experiences in childhood and adolescence are not processed, e.g. there had been

rape, incest, etc. An incest of the father at the daughter is usually covered by the mother, so that the family "stays together". In such cases, the mental break has usually been going on for a long time. In many cases, the defamations against men is the only psychological way for the affected person to portray her trauma to the outside world. Psychological clarifications would therefore be appropriate immediately.

In other cases, adolescent girls are defaming men putting their breasts in the center of life to make themselves "interesting". They often mean this defamation "just for fun", but when the rumor goes through society, this can have bad consequences for the man, although the girl did not want such consequences as dismissal of the man or public humiliation of the man in a court. Then the silly girl has actually made herself "interesting" and proved that society has no idea about sexual rumors.

Sexualized "civilization" is confronted with an ever smaller number of male teachers because it seems that the men teachers  do no longer want to accept the stupid sexualized, pubertal girls who are even sexually manipulated by their criminal parents].

The men's resistance to the girls' boobies power games: They go

Men feel humiliated by the sexually provocative appearance of their breasts, distinguish themselves and may become aggressive because they feel weak when their sexual arousal with an erection can be seen, which is not the case with women (p.103).

[Men also don't want to be labeled just a Playboy, and they don't want their money taken out of their pockets with bust incentives. Thus men take more distance from women which the women themselves are to blame for].

The men's resistance to the boobies power games: movies with breasts

But men also play power games against women:

-- men make demands on the female appearance, they reject women when they don't like their figure, and they are thus deciding about women's life, too

-- for men [without psychological knowledge] the breasts partly determine the "value" of the woman

-- and when women comply with this man's dictate, men have a say in a woman's life.

-- men produce commercials with breasts in the movies, produce bust shows etc. with breasts they like, and in this way forms and size of tits and titties are presented as common standards (p.104).

The women then compare their breasts with the breasts in advertising, and usually they then reject more and more their own body. The women can be reduced to their breasts. When men "nevertheless" stand up for them, such unstable women are doubly grateful, and gratitude is then often confused with love. This can have dangerous consequences, and mental misunderstandings in the relationship are preprogrammed (p.105).

The men's resistance to the boobies power games: Woman as a stupid silly bimbo in the movie

Men not only choose women with their dream bosom for commercials, but they also portray the woman as a "silly bimbo":

-- in washing powder advertising, where the man tells the woman which detergent is the best (p.105-106)

-- in other product adds where a woman must serve as an eye-catcher (p.106).

The indirect messages thereby are:

-- who has big breasts is stupid (p.106), the associations with a dairy cow are not far away (p.115)
-- who has big breasts, is available as an object
-- only such breasts as in advertising are good breasts (p.106).

By these manipulations of commercials women can become depressed, and men at the same time are feeling greedy (p.106).

With this, the world of men presents an incomprehensible double standard, because large breasts are abused in advertising as a lure, but are labelled as immoral in everyday life [topless life for women is mostly forbidden]. (S.106).

[Perverse governments prohibit women's topless life
The male world is not able to find the balance between knowledge about women and sexuality. Studies show clearly that when men look at beautiful women's breasts during 10 minutes per day, they live much happier. So there is the question why certain governments ("USA", Italy, South of Switzerland Ticino etc.) are prohibiting women feeling free to be topless confronting them with police and fines for their beautiful breasts only because police wants to make easy career points fining beautiful women!]

7. The adult woman

  
Woman topless, Xingu native woman in the Amazon wild forest spinning cotton [10] - Women topless, Xingu native women in the Amazon wild forest wrestling [11] and as a winner in women fighting wrestling competition [12]

The breast remains a source of mental vulnerability

Women with a positive mentality towards their breast expect compliments and from a male partner also caressing of their breasts. But at the same time they are afraid that men are staring at their breasts. Therefore they are hiding their tits and titties. The expectation for compliments and the simultaneous hiding of the breast thus cause a constant mental contradiction (p.28,29).

[This makes every woman emotionally vulnerable, which men don't feel at all in this way. Native women don't have this problem because they live free topless - which can be advised alto to the "civilized" cultures - live more topless!].

Women with small breasts feel a lack, women with large breasts think they have to hide their breasts. So nothing is right for the woman (p.35).

Mother Earth for breasts: anise seeds+green parts of fennel+beer massage+stinging nettle - or aguaje juice
There are two recipes from Mother Earth for getting bigger breasts or reinstalling sagging breasts: with anise seeds, green parts of fennel, beer massage and stinging nettle - or, when the woman is living in a country with tropical fruits, drinking a glass of hormone juice of aguaje 1 time per day - or BOTH together.

The battle for the breast continues

Altogether there is a fight for the breast between daughter and parents and between husband and wife. In this respect can be guessed that for every woman the breast and tits and titties and boobs and boobies haver really a big psychological significance for every woman (p.32).

The breast is an essential element of the definition of woman (p.66-67) and stands for the ability of giving birth and nourishing. Olbricht:

"the woman is the principle of life itself." (S.67)

Women can lift and care, but if it is too much, they can also crush life and kill life (p.62-63).

[The mother must therefore learn to estimate how much breast, how much care a child needs].


The adult woman without positive attitudes to her breasts remains without desire

Women without a positive feeling for their breasts feel no pleasure when touching their breasts or breastfeeding (p.21).

The psychosis which a frigid and puritan mother is enforcing to her daughter will be only overcome with the dauther when the first or second child is coming - provoking a big change of character (p.22).


No ability of relations without psychological stability

A relationship is like a magnetic field with the North and South poles: both poles must be equally strong in order to lead a partnership. In the case of unequal strength, the weaker part strives for the stronger part, surrenders to the stronger part, which is not a fulfilling partnership for both partners in the long run (p.61).

[A relationship therefore requires psychological stability between man and woman so the up and down in the eternal friendship is not too extreme].

8. The older woman and her breasts


Woman topless, Xingu native woman in the Amazon with hanging breasts [13] - Mother Earth can reinstall this!

The aging hanging breasts must be re-integrated mentally (p.128).

Mother Earth for breasts: anise seeds+green parts of fennel+beer massage+stinging nettle - or aguaje juice
There are two recipes from Mother Earth for getting bigger breasts or reinstalling sagging breasts: with anise seeds, green parts of fennel, beer massage and stinging nettle - or, when the woman is living in a country with tropical fruits, drinking a glass of hormone juice of aguaje 1 time per day - or BOTH together.

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